Forty-four per cent of men thought dick pics were sexy vs just 14 per cent of women. The YouGov study found women who received a dick pic, even one they’ve asked for, were more likely to describe it as gross, or stupid, than sexy or funny. Consider the alternatives: maybe you look desperate or sad, like you’ve not been listening, or can’t be trusted to respect boundaries. How does this make me look?īrushing aesthetics aside, you might think the element of surprise from an unsolicited pic makes you look cheeky, or brave, a man who knows what he wants. Building up to your money shot not only helps create excitement, it gives you extra steps along the way to a) confirm they really want to receive photos and b) be sure you definitely want to do this. Start with the rear view, or an ass shot, or a chest pic only. If they have asked for a nude, go tasteful with your first. A revealing photo goes down better if it’s not a surprise it’s the difference between a cat-call from an unseen assailant and a reassuring “You look wonderful tonight” from someone you really fancy. Ask yourself why they’re so keen on defending the idea of taking someone unawares. Some might argue spontaneity is sexy, and directly asking consent takes the “magic” out of the moment – but there are exceptions. “They seem like they might be up for it” isn’t really enough. Has the person directly asked for a nude pic? Run through a quick checklist in your head it should take only a few seconds. When we're preparing to send photos of our naked bodies, we must ask ourselves what we’re hoping to get out of it.
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